I am grateful that he was there with me, but not grateful that he won't just wear a condom!!

Written by: Anonymous, 30

The boy I am seeing didn’t pull out in time, and was pretty blasé about the fact I would have to get the morning after pill as I wasn’t on contraception.

I told him he should pay for it because he could have had more control.

Admittedly I was the one who made it happen, so I was partly responsible and could have stopped sooner. 

We drive to the pharmacy and he asks if I want him to come with me. I say yes, and by this point we had already agreed to go halves. We walk in and he says “should I send you a tenner, or you send me a tenner” He then remembers the earlier conversation where I had told him I was using my credit card until pay day, so offers to pay. 

I ask for the ellaOne, am recommended an alternative as it was only 1 day ago, get asked a few questions and he taps his phone to pay. I am grateful that he was there with me, but not grateful that he won’t just wear a condom!!